Life Changing Truth & Love Motivated Obedience

This morning I was reading an article in the Journal of Biblical Counseling on how we are to think about ongoing consequences for forgiven sin. The response was taken from A Godward Life by John Piper. In one part Piper discussed the love of God and how it enables obedience and change in the life of the believer.  This is what I’ve been trying to articulate, but, of course, Piper says it much better so I thought I would share it with you as well. This stuff is truly amazing:

The Bible assumes that God is the decisive factor in making us what we should be. With wonderful bluntness the Bible says, ‘Put away malice and be tenderhearted.’ It does not say, ‘If you can…’ or, ‘If your parents were tender-hearted to you…’ or, ‘If you weren’t terribly wronged or abused….’ It says simply, ‘Be tender-hearted.’

…This is wonderfully freeing. It frees us from the terrible fatalism that says change is impossible. It frees from mechanistic views that make our backgrounds our destinies. His commands always come with freeing, life changing truth to believe. For example: ‘Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other [that’s the command], just as God in Christ also has forgiven you [that’s the life-changing truth]. Therefore be imitators of God [command], as beloved children [life-changing truth]; and walk in love [command], just as Christ also loved you and gave Himself up for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God as a fragrant aroma [life-changing truth]’ (Eph. 4:32-5:2).

There is life-changing power in the truths of this text. Ponder them with me as you pray for that power to change you.

1. God adopted us as His children. We have a new Father and a new family. This breaks the fatalistic forces of our ‘family of origin.’ ‘Do not call anyone on earth your father, for One is your Father, He who is in heaven’ (Matt. 23:9). I once heard a young man quote Hebrews 12:10-11 with tears of deep conviction and great joy because they assured him that he was not doomed to think of God in the terms of his abusive earthly father: ‘They [our earthly fathers] disciplined us for a short time as seemed best to them, but He disciplines us for our good, so that we may share His holiness. All discipline for the moment seems not to be joyful, but sorrowful; yet to those who have been trained by it, afterwards it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness.’ They did this…but He does that. This is a life-changing truth. We can know it, believe it, and be changed by it, no matter what kind of earthly fathers we have. God reveals Himself in His Word to revolutionize our thinking about His fatherhood. We are not cursed to think in the old categories if our upbringing was defective.

2. God loves us as His children.We are ‘loved children.’ The command to imitate the love of God does not hang in the air; it comes with power: ‘Be imitators of God as loved children.’ ‘Love!’ is the command. ‘Being loved’ is the power.

3. God has forgiven us in Christ. Be tender-hearted and forgiving just as God in Christ forgave you. What God did for us becomes the power to change. He forgave us. That opens a relationship of love and a future of hope. And does not tender-heartedness flow from a heart overwhelmed with being loved undeservedly and being secured eternally? The command to be tender-hearted has more to do with what God has done for you than what your mother or father did to you. You are not enslaved to your past.

4. Christ loved you and gave Himself up for you. ‘Walk in love just as Christ loved you.’ The command to walk in love comes with the life-changing truth that we are loved. At the moment when there is a chance to love, and some voice says, ‘You are not a loving person,’ you can say, ‘Christ’s love for me makes me a new kind of person. His command to love is just as surely possible for me as His promise of love is true for me.’

My plea is that you resist fatalism with all your might. No, with all God’s might. Change is possible. Pursue it.

— Excerpted from the book, A Godward Life, by John Piper


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